Hey guys, I'm having some MOH issues right now. I asked a friend that actually lives within 500 miles of me to be my MOH and now I'm regretting it. Two weeks after I ask her, she goes out of town for 2 months. When she comes back, she's completely different. I've only seen her twice at holidays since then. She's apparently wanting to divorce her husband now and run off to Oregon. She skipped her daughters birthday, her 14th anniversary, and her daughters first day of 1st grade to hang out with friends. She's blown me off three times for unknown reasons.
I want to uninvite her to be my MOH but I don't know if it's too soon, or if I'm just being selfish. My weddings not until next April, but I could really use some help and advice now since I don't have anyone else in this state besides my SUPER busy mother.
What do you think?