I am having a destination wedding with apprx. 25 people attending. We had planned on having a 2 hour full dinner withcake, coffee and tea. Our wedding is at 3pm with dinner to follow. We had made these plans on the idea that when we returned home, we would have a family lunch reception to view video and pics of the wedding. Well, we have now had a change of plans and decided to have a full evening dinner reception when we get home for 150 guests with full premium bar from start to finish, photographer, dj...pretty much everything involved in a reception (7pm-1am). Would it be inappropriate to cut our wedding reception down to an hour with hot and cold apetizers and cake? Everyone attending the wedding reception will also be attending the home reception, so it isnt like anyone would be missing out. It is just that it would be much more cost effective for us and it would give our guest more time to enjoy their time at our destination seeing as there is tons to do in a small amount of time.