My FI and I are making a general invite list so we know how many people we have to help us choose a venue. I have 9 neices and nephews (I'm the baby of a family of 4), so obviously children will be invitied. We are planning on having a children's table with a different menu for them with activities at the table.
Now heres the question: My FI was going over theinvite list with his mom today and she saw we were planning on inviting 2 sets of my family friends and their children (2 kids each for an extra total of 4 kids). After talking to her, my FI thinks we should not invite the children of friends and only invite children that are family. I think it is completely rude to invite someone without their young children unless we are doing a no children allowed wedding. I couldn't imagine these people showing up, seeing lots of kids running around and knowing theirs were not invitied. I feel like the parents will be offended. Anyways I told him I'd post this here and we can see if other people think it is rude or not and use that to help make our final decision. Thanks!