We are wanting to do family photos before the ceremony to save on time so we're not rushed after. I have some family members saying don't do it; the first time he sees you should be when you come down the aisl; if you do you'll regret it. Does anyone have any thoughts? Did you do pictures before the ceremony? Do you regret it? We're still going to have that "first look" just not with everyone and not coming down the aisle?