So I have been struggling with some issues with my twin sister as my MOH. Her and I have had a rocky relationship for the past few years and I thought that asking her to be my MOH would help repair our relationship by giving us something to bond over. Unfortunately it has had the opposite effect. At first she was very excited and wanted to help with most things. We went dress shopping together and she helped me fill out my save the dates. Then other life things have had her very distracted, she has her own set of twins as well as a boyfriend who absoultely hates me. (sorry to get into dramatics but I feel its easier for you guys to give me an opinion with more background info) I'm pretty understanding that she has a lot going on right now and try to give her VERY advance notice of everything so she has time to plan accordingly. For the past few months every time I try to get ahold of her she either ignores me completely, or gives me an excuse last minute as to why she can't come or can't afford to buy shoes etc. etc.
Like I said I try to give very advance notice so she has time to plan accordingly financially and schedule wise. I kind of feel that when she accepted to be my MOH she knew that there were certain obligations she was going to have such as buying a dress, shoes, accessories, hair-do etc. and she should be planning for these things. But when I bring them up she gets very angry with me and rants and raves about how she can't afford anything. If I had the extra money I would buy everything for her but my Fiance and I have a very strict budget when it comes to this wedding that we have to stick to. My wedding is in 3 months an I don't know what to do. Some people are telling me to kick her out others are telling me to just deal with it. But I'm tired and stressing! PLEASE HELP!!!