Ok, as you all know my FI is Mexican and I am white, well, his Mom and Dad are the best but, the women who are here in the US are horrible, they are very judgmental and cliquish type people. When we moved back from Columbus, we stayed at his cousins house until our apartment was ready to move in an oh my God, his wife, as I had be told is a total B*T*H and she made up stories to all of the others about me that were so not true as I have been told she has done about everybody who has lived with her. Well, now she wants to tell everyone why do I not like her she never did anything to me, umm duh? open your eyes and remember!!! If she was the only one that would be fine but, no everybody is the same. I thought 2 of the girls were friends but, no they do just as bad, I hear that they are judge everything from the wedding to the way FI's and my relationship. I have had it with all of these holier than thou type people, I have even been told by one of them that if I was Mexican I would be accepted easier into their group, do you believe that?! FI is angered about this he has also heard things from the guys that the women have said to their husbands so, it is very rare that we go to a get together or party. How do I get this situation bettered, I don't want FI's family to be this way and I don't want to cause problems between him and his family, I actually liked some of them before all of this. Any advice or help, please. And sorry so long, need to vent badly!!!