Okay so my problem is that I really dont care about having an e-party but I do want me and FH families to come together. The problem is that my cousin and his cousin do not get along (long story). Well they say that all problems have been dropped. I really dont think that FH cousin has dropped it. She is a complete AW and she wont even show up to events such as me and FH kids B-day parties, she just drops off her daughter and keeps going. She is in the wedding and so is my cousin and I just really want to have a dinner with our families so that I can see how everyone acts around each other. I am really nervous about this because there has been so many incidents (non-violent) but FH cousin can be really rude.
I would really appreciate any advice that I could get but please dont be rude! TIA!