hi... okay so i need to vent a little and need some advice... this may be long sry in advance... so
the story: my dad is getting remarried to a girl only 3 years older then me, im his oldest daughter... in all honsety the age doesnt actually bother me at all since my dad has always dated girls young. im happy that my dad is happy and found someone but im not happy as to who it is with. ill give you the short version, so first she was still married when she met my dad and there was drama with her now ex, and while i was still in my dads house there was a scare cuz the ex was comming to the house when i was there alone... well she moved in then i moved out so she could move in with her 2 kids, it worked out cuz i was getting married and was moving with my hubby.. my little sister moved in my dads "basement" cuz she had just had a baby and my dad let her move in cuz she had no where to go. Well my dads FI was starting problems with my sister they had an arguement and the FI said some mean things to my sister... not to get into details cuz this happened many times my sister got kicked out because my dads now FI wasnt getting along with my sister... the FI started writting crap on facebook about me and my sister and it just got bad, at this point i was nto living in the same state, my hubby is in the military so we were stationed somewhere else... well to get to the point my dad and her are now engaged, just happened in march and their wedding is in August, my sisters wedding which was being planned first is now being pushed back to april of '11... i do not like this girl my dad is going to marry because she is inmature and picks stupid little fights... my dad and my family know i get along with everyone and never had a problem with my dads gf, or prior FI.. i think the current FI is after my dads money and i dont approve of her. We have been asked my sister and i want to be invloved in the wedding, my sister isnt going to be and the more i think about it i dont think i want to be either i just will attend for my dad. The FI has recently gotten mad because my sister and i said we wount except her as a step mother... or her kids as step siblings but will recgnize them as my dads wife and her kids. so am i over reacting in any one opinion?? does anyone think i should be in the wedding or just a guess? ( oh ya im 24, dads 47, Fi is 27, sister 21)