I've never been to many weddings and I've always wondered, would it be more traditonal to read wedding vows from a book? Or pouring your heart out?? On my opinion only i can truely say what's in my heart. A book cannot determine how i feel about my fiance, I would rather want to speak whats in my heart, and cry in front of him because he knows everything that Im stating is true!!! soo what are your opinions??