What to do about people who assume they're invited, but aren't really invited?
Specifically, a woman my fiance works with assumes that she is invited, and is planning on coming. We didn't send her a save the date or mention it at all, she just assumes. We're not inviting anyone else from his work besides his 2 bosses (my dad is also a high up at his company, and my fiance's bosses are my dad's coworkers and good friends). None of the people he actually hangs out with at work are invited because it's one of those "well we can't just invite one and not invite ALL of them" things. Here's the thing. This coworker thinks that my fiance is the greatest thing to hit the planet, and is the niece of a close family friend (who is invited), however she herself isn't a family friend, she's just been introduced to the family through her uncle. I just don't have anymore room. My list was stretched to begin with, and recently some out of town family has moved back into the state and will have to be invited which already adds another 5 people to my already bloated list. Also I feel awful being forced to invite her, and not being able to invite any of the fiance's real work friends. What should I do?