I was wondering if you girls could help me with something. I was reading about bridal showers somewhere the other day, and they talked about hostess gifts. Are these expected? I had already planned on writing a nice thank you note to each bridesmaid thanking her for the planning and whatever gift I get. But do I also need to get them a small gift in return, or is that part of their gifts later on? Is this more for family members who host a shower? Thanks for any feedback as I definitely do not want to offend any of my fabulous bridesmaids!