So I've started looking at dresses and my mom and I are already disagreeing. ( I know, it's my wedding...lol ) I've liked the look of several dresses that aren't stark white, like this little number from Nordies http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/la-femme-embellished-strapless-chiffon-gown/3316062?origin=category&contextualcategoryid=0&fashionColor=&resultback=297
Kind of a white chiffon with a nude lining underneath. She claims "You deserve to white so you should wear it. I deserved to wear white so I did." Also, I come from a very traditional southern family where premarital sex is a big nono. I am worried some of my older relatives will say rude things or make assumptions and get upset. Unfortunately, that's the kind of family I have.... I really don't want their comments to ruin my wedding day. So do I wear what I want and worry about what they may say? Or do I have to wear a white dress I'm not totally in love with?