Ok so my biggest issue is figuring out who will marry us. Thought my cousin was ordained, but turns out he isn't. The FI and I are not church-goes, but we do consider ourselves religious/spiritual and getting married is so intimate I don't feel comfortable just having anyone do it. Does anyone have any suggestion on where to start or particular people they are using/have used in the Detroit area? We are ok with a male or female. Thank you in advance