Last night I got on Facebook and spotted a nice photo of one of my best friends from late high school to mid college. She was in a wedding dress... walking down an aisle... man on her arm... smiling ear to ear.
My first reaction was "Holy crap, I didn't know she was getting married!" and then I realized I didn't even know she was engaged to begin with... but I decided that was just due to growing apart, even though I was still bummed that she didn't even mention that she was getting married when I had talked to her a couple months ago.
Within an hour another of my friends (and one of the girls best friends as recently as a year ago) had posted something along the lines of "Why didn't you tell me?" and then several OTHER friends from our area who had all been very close friends with this girl posted "Wow I had no idea" and "Wait what?" etc. One of them contacted me and was talking about how hurt she was that she wasn't told and had to find out on facebook.
And the weirder part, is that this girl has deleted every single comment on her wall that says "congrats" or anything about her getting married... and she also somehow COMPLETELY removed the option to view photos from her facebook (instead of just untagging that wedding one).
She hasn't posted anything like "Yes I'm married, thanks guys!" or "Oh that wasn't a wedding, we were shooting a scene for an indie movie, tehe!" (which was my second thought after being shocked.) I figured if she eloped she would have at least sent a message to the people that commented on her wall to say "shhh! and surprise!" or if it wasn't actually a wedding that she'd give some sort of explanation. I sent her a message asking if she's married or not and "congrats" and she never responded.
It really has me confused!! You'd think she'd explain to those who have asked!
Any of you had any of these crazy facebook situations? Any thoughts on this one because it's making my brain hurt, lol!
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