So, this post is more about my job than the wedding. But the wedding is a factor. My FI gets transferred a lot within his district, so we had to choose a place to live that was somewhat central. In Los Angeles/Orange County so we did. And I moved there. But its an hour and a half drive with traffic each way 84 miles round trip to MY job. Now, I'm a nanny. So I can totally get a new job. The traffic has really been taking a toll on my life and body. But obviously there isn't much time before the wedding to be interviewing. FI is worried I'm going to put our income in jeporady as soon as we're married. But idk how much more I can take! Advice welcomed.