Hi Everyone,
I'm really more of a learker to the boards than a poster, but I don't know what to do about a situation with a friend of mine.
Long story short: I did not ask a friend to be a bridesmaid, and one weekend when my MOH and another BM were in town trying on dresses (mine and some possiblities for them) I posted on FB that I thought I found my dress and maybe BM dresses too. This friend then texted me saying "so am i not a BM?" I tried as tactfully as possible to explain, but I know she was hurt. According to what I have read on previous boards, this matter shouldn't be discussed becasue it will only lead to more hurt feelings. A few weekends ago we were all at another brides bach party, and one of my BM's told me she thinks I should really talk to the friend - otherwise she will never get over it?
I guess the question is do I try and sit down and discuss it with her? or do I let it be and just have her do a reading/be part of staying over at the hotel the night before and getting ready the next morning? I feel aweful, but was also really hurt by the fact that she put me on the spot by coming right out and asking me ...
All advice is really appreciated