My fiance and I are thiiiisss close to chosing a venue for our wedding, however what I am hung up on, is that we want it at a beach that we consider "our beach" and it would be at either of two resorts on a cliff. This beach is special to us and has significant meaning to us. However, here lies my concern, while the beach is special and has meaning and I can't imagine getting married elsewhere.....I don't feel it's "me"...that it's my style. I feel really kinda selfish feeling this way but its true. All my friends joke that I am always the "glamourous one" and that I bring glamour to all their parties. As a little girl I always envisioned a glamourous elegant wedding. I'm afraid having it at the beach I will have to downplay the glamour aspect and it won't feel like me. The dress I want is so elegant and old hollywood looking that I'm afraid I'll look completely out of place. I can't really talk about this with my fiance so I'm hoping maybe some girls out there have some advice or any ideas on how to glam up a beach wedding???