so my fiance and i are helping to pay for the wedding. we are actually going to [ay for half if not more. well my mother is making me feel like i have to pick cheap things. I showed her a qoute from a photographer for 1500 and she anted me to ask my friend who is a photographer to do it instead. my aunt is making the floral arrangements which is great cause she is amazing our cake is free and my dress was relatively cheap. i made the comment of wanting a photo booth there and she is like we need to talk. and then there is the guest list. they have family friends that they want to come however the husband makes me feel uncomfortable. he gives me the creeps and ive explained this to her numerous times. i just dont know what to do cause we arent getting married til sept and i am worried that the decision making is going to get harder and she wont listen to what i want even though it is my wedding any advice