if you're including children for the reception?
I keep going back and forth with this. We're older (30 and 32) and lots of our cousins and friends have kids now. Is it awful to say that I really don't want them there? I absolutely don't have a problem with kids (do want them eventually), but I just want it to be about us, you know? Does that make any sense? (In the last year, so many babies have been born and have changed our relationships. Wow, this does sound awful of me!) But then when talking to a college friend who is OOT and has a child, she'll come but her husband won't if her son isn't included. I don't know what to do. I feel like most couples will want a night out without their children, but there are a few (like the one I mentioned) who will have to leave her family behind for a weekend, and I don't feel like that's right either. I know you can't please everyone, but still.
What are your thoughts and opinions on this subject?