So one of my bridesmaids is getting married some time in 2012 and has no date set. She lately has been calling me all the time to talk about her wedding and all of her wedding details, yet has no date, and has yet to ask about my wedding that she is in in 5 months. I asked her if she went and got fitted for her dress yet (meaning her bridesmaid dress for my wedding) and she was like, oh no fittings yet, I am just looking at dresses online. I was like what? And then she was like, oh I thought you were talking about my wedding dress. It's like she doesn't get that I am getting married before her. When I asked her (as I asked all of my bridesmaids) if they wanted to get their hair done and how much they were willing to pay for it, she was like, "you're so silly! I haven't booked my hair and makeup people yet!!". I mean, it is kind of comical but I am getting really irritated. The worst part is that this is FI's sister and normally we get along fantastically until he and I started planning our wedding. I don't get it. I was thinking of saying something like, "I'm really excited for you and your wedding, however, I have a lot to get done before my wedding. I will be more than happy to help you plan after I am married". Is that too rude? Should I say anything at all?