Maybe this isn't the best place to share this information but I feel the closest to this board so I am going to post it here : )
We are getting married on the 22nd of May! Everything is coming up super fast, so it seems and I am getting pretty stressed. First some background info.
My parents are divorced and remarried. I love my parents and step parents very much and think of them as if they were my real parents. Recently my stepmoms father past away (whom I liked very much) and left money to my stepmom. She decided to use some of the money to pretty much foot the entire bill for the wedding. It is really sweet and generous! In no way to I want this to come across like I don't like her or appreciate what she is doing for us. But when it came to picking the cater she had lots of input (normally wouldn't mind). So I came up with a list of three that I thought would be the best fit for the wedding and their contact information and gave her this list. She went ahead and scheduled a tasting for her and my dad to go to. When they called me to tell me about it, they didn't even ask if I would be able to make it. I am currently going to UF and had exams so I couldn't go to my own tasting!!! Their reasoning was that it would be more important to go on a date that my dad could go then me! Ugh so that was stresser number one... but it happend awhile ago so I am kind of over it now...
Second really big stresser (at least for me it was): The addresses on the invitations. About a week ago I finially finished printing, glueing, putting ribbon on, and stuffing the invitations. Then I went to the post office to make sure the font I used on the RSVP envelopes was readable they told me that it wasn't... after I already did all of them. So I went to the store, got labels, printed them, and put them on the envelopes and restuffed all of the invites... Then I get a call from my stepmom. She tells me that I have to redo all of her and my dads side of the guest list because she doesn't feel that the invites were worded properly... Thats about 40 invites! I also had two exams, a presentation, a quiz, and a paper that had to be started in that same week. I also have to get up to go to physical training with the Marine Corps (trying to become an officer) at 0430 every other morning. Needless to say, having to buy and redo 40 invitations was not working well with my schedule and I was extrememly stressed out! (she realized how stressed I was and was nice enough to do them for me, thank God!) I think worked on the invitations for an entire weekend and everyday something went terribly wrong and I cried because I was getting so frustrated.
(now to the point of the post) I think I stressed myself out so much with school, working out, and the wedding planning that I caused myself to be "late" by ten days! My FI goes to school in Virginia plus we are both waiting till the wedding night for both of our "first time". I think I am about to start soon because of all the cramping going on. Has anyone else had this problem? I know high amounts of stress can cause your period to be abnormal...