I need to vent.
My best friend is getting married literally one month before me. I love her to death. She's essentially another sister.
Today I get a facebook message from her maid of honor. And I quote. I ordered the invitations for X's shower. They came to $100. If you can mail me a check for $25 that would be great. We'll just continue splitting all the expenses four ways from here. Thanks. (Which $100 on 50 shower invites? Come.On.)
Um. this girl has never once asked me my budget. Never once asked what I can contribute. Never once asked for any input planning the shower. Now I have no problem helping, both planning and monetarily. I actually planned on both.
But she could have asked what our budgets are! Or what kind of shower we even wanted to throw. ARGH now I get to be the bridesmaid who says sorry kids I'm broke and we need to talk. Shouldn't she have asked this all before? I'm not being crazy here right? When I threw my SIL's shower I went out of my way to confirm a budget everyone was comfortable before we even picked a date!