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Poor Cate

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As BSC as her pre-engagement wedding planning may be, the poor girl is getting flamed to high heaven today.

I kinda feel bad.  Frown

But I guess I'm just a big mush...

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  • GreenPepperBurgerGreenPepperBurger
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    edited December 2011
    I don't. Not when she's made so many judgements about people being "BSC" and then tries to suck up to people, only to bash them when they call her out on her BS.
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  • katanne9katanne9 member
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    edited December 2011
    I don't think this thread was necessary. It's not really saying anything except drawing more attention to this entire situation.
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  • amelia66amelia66
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    edited December 2011
    ok Im new, whats BSC?
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  • loves2shop4shoesloves2shop4shoes member
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    edited December 2011
    BSC means bat-shiit crazy

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  • jeanacorinajeanacorina
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    edited December 2011
    Nobody says "poor insert newbie person's name here."
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  • amelia66amelia66
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    edited December 2011
    Got it! Thanks!
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  • loves2shop4shoesloves2shop4shoes member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_poor-cate?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:1e4a4bec-e35d-4abd-92f9-5ef772840443Post:a114bb2f-0333-4920-b42e-eed7ec562ed6">Re: Poor Cate</a>:
    [QUOTE]Nobody says "poor insert newbie person's name here."
    Posted by jeanacorina[/QUOTE]

    <div>That's a valid point...maybe I am being too much of a mush.</div>

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  • oceana919oceana919
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_poor-cate?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:1e4a4bec-e35d-4abd-92f9-5ef772840443Post:06088268-0ef4-4c76-9df2-62463e41ac92">Re: Poor Cate</a>:
    [QUOTE]I don't. Not when she's made so many judgements about people being "BSC" and then tries to suck up to people, only to bash them when they call her out on her BS.
    Posted by GreenPepperBurger[/QUOTE]

    Or completely backtrack and rewrite/make excuses/apologize for her own opinion the minute anyone actually disagrees with what she says.

    However, much like Lindsey Lohan and Heidi Montaug, I think she's gotten enough airtime as of late, don't you?

    Bean dip, anyone?

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  • jeanacorinajeanacorina
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    edited December 2011
    Mushy mush. Tongue out

    Sometimes I feel bad, too. I occasionally defend a person in the thread. But Cate can (and does) stick up for herself... and she dishes it out as well.
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  • desertsundesertsun member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_poor-cate?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:1e4a4bec-e35d-4abd-92f9-5ef772840443Post:a114bb2f-0333-4920-b42e-eed7ec562ed6">Re: Poor Cate</a>:
    [QUOTE]Nobody says "poor insert newbie person's name here."
    Posted by jeanacorina[/QUOTE]

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  • loves2shop4shoesloves2shop4shoes member
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    edited December 2011
    That bean dip looks tasty Oceana.

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  • katanne9katanne9 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_poor-cate?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:1e4a4bec-e35d-4abd-92f9-5ef772840443Post:a997b47b-1eac-4702-b2a6-c8fca953ea92">Re: Poor Cate</a>:
    [QUOTE]That bean dip looks tasty Oceana.
    Posted by loves2shop4shoes[/QUOTE]


    and she ALWAYS posts it when I'm HUNGRY!
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  • **Mutley****Mutley**
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_poor-cate?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:1e4a4bec-e35d-4abd-92f9-5ef772840443Post:1e84a05d-9eab-481f-b750-e57de3082c9c">Poor Cate</a>:
    [QUOTE]As BSC as her pre-engagement wedding planning may be, the poor girl is getting flamed to high heaven today. I kinda feel bad.   But I guess I'm just a big mush...
    Posted by loves2shop4shoes[/QUOTE]

    You feel bad because you like her and professed your love for her earlier this week.  And now, you've found out that she is BSC. 
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  • loves2shop4shoesloves2shop4shoes member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_poor-cate?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:1e4a4bec-e35d-4abd-92f9-5ef772840443Post:d42e5340-3e5f-4512-a731-1c458e473407">Re: Poor Cate</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Poor Cate : You feel bad because you like her and professed your love for her earlier this week.  And now, you've found out that she is BSC. 
    Posted by **Mutley**[/QUOTE]

    <div>Meh, I can acknowledge her BSC-iness and still love her.  I love my mom, and Cate's got NOTHING on my mom's level of BSC...</div><div>
    </div><div>Just saying.</div>

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  • **Mutley****Mutley**
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    edited December 2011
    Your mom and a random person online are...  shall we say, a bit different. 
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  • jeanacorinajeanacorina
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    edited December 2011
    So... Cate is your mom, and my future baby's name will be CATE'S BF....

    Does that make us cousins? Sisters? BFF?
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  • loves2shop4shoesloves2shop4shoes member
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    edited December 2011
    Obviously...I'm just saying.  Acknowledging someone is BSC and liking them are not necessarily mutually exclusive.

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  • loves2shop4shoesloves2shop4shoes member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_poor-cate?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:1e4a4bec-e35d-4abd-92f9-5ef772840443Post:77343beb-191c-4e45-8be2-e98f41ef0302">Re: Poor Cate</a>:
    [QUOTE]So... Cate is your mom, and my future baby's name will be CATE'S BF.... Does that make us cousins? Sisters? BFF?
    Posted by jeanacorina[/QUOTE]

    <div>It makes us at least BFF with potential for in-laws...maybe?</div>

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  • PandaBurrPandaBurr member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_poor-cate?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:1e4a4bec-e35d-4abd-92f9-5ef772840443Post:d42e5340-3e5f-4512-a731-1c458e473407">Re: Poor Cate</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Poor Cate : You feel bad because you like her and professed your love for her earlier this week.  And now, you've found out that she is BSC. 
    Posted by **Mutley**[/QUOTE]

    I agree. I think she feels bad for cate because cate validates all of her opinions.
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  • loves2shop4shoesloves2shop4shoes member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_poor-cate?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:1e4a4bec-e35d-4abd-92f9-5ef772840443Post:89a993de-ad27-4bb4-b4e0-88f703ba77cc">Re: Poor Cate</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Poor Cate : I agree. I think she feels bad for cate because cate validates all of her opinions.
    Posted by PandaBurr[/QUOTE]

    <div>Um... which opinions have I had that have so desperately needed Cate's (in particular) validations?  Maybe I just feel bad for a poster who I'm fond of who got raked over the coals in 3 or 4 different posts.</div><div>
    </div><div>I'm calling BS...but thanks for playing.</div>

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  • PandaBurrPandaBurr member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_poor-cate?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:1e4a4bec-e35d-4abd-92f9-5ef772840443Post:ff8463e7-5d16-45e5-82c6-e73d4bf4de3e">Re: Poor Cate</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Poor Cate : Um... which opinions have I had that have so desperately needed Cate's (in particular) validations?  Maybe I just feel bad for a poster who I'm fond of who got raked over the coals in 3 or 4 different posts. I'm calling BS...but thanks for playing.
    Posted by loves2shop4shoes[/QUOTE]

    In your first thread about your mom there were TONS of great responses, all of which you dismissed, except for cate's which pretty much told you to keep doing what you're already doing. Come to think of it, that was what you did in your second post about your mom. It makes me think either you're cate's alt or you know her personally, because I think it's weird that in the first thread you declared your love for her awfully quickly considering your responses to the other posters.
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  • jeanacorinajeanacorina
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    edited December 2011
    QUICK!

    If you renounce Cate and declare your love for me you might just avoid the ultimate doom of a thousand tiny deaths!
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  • loves2shop4shoesloves2shop4shoes member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_poor-cate?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:1e4a4bec-e35d-4abd-92f9-5ef772840443Post:532faf6b-b145-4c77-86a0-5ac18a82559d">Re: Poor Cate</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Poor Cate : In your first thread about your mom there were TONS of great responses, all of which you dismissed, except for cate's which pretty much told you to keep doing what you're already doing. Come to think of it, that was what you did in your second post about your mom. It makes me think either you're cate's alt or you know her personally, because I think it's weird that in the first thread you declared your love for her awfully quickly considering your responses to the other posters.
    Posted by PandaBurr[/QUOTE]

    <div>Oh nonsense.  I didn't dismiss the other responses.  I took them all into consideration and resolved to find the middle ground.  And I'm not Cate's alt nor do I know her personally.</div><div>
    </div><div>Go sell crazy someplace else...we're all stocked up here.</div><div>
    </div><div>EDIT:  Jeana, since we're already BFF and in-laws, let's run off into the sunset.  For in the sunset, there will be no one to tell us we're bitter hags who suck in bed.<img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" /></div>

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  • Ana_2985Ana_2985 member
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    edited December 2011
    I think I'd be more upset about a pity-thread started in my honor than about being called BSC for things I chose to do.
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  • notquiteblushingnotquiteblushing member
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    This thread is weird.  Cate can take care of herself.
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  • PaigeMcCPaigeMcC member
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    BEAN DIP!!

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  • loves2shop4shoesloves2shop4shoes member
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    edited December 2011
    All this talk of bean dip makes me wonder...

    ...(scampers off to the kitchen to see if the ingredients are available)

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  • PaigeMcCPaigeMcC member
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    I'm making cupcakes *neener neeener neener!!*

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  • loves2shop4shoesloves2shop4shoes member
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    YUMMMM...cupcakes.

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  • **Mutley****Mutley**
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_poor-cate?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:1e4a4bec-e35d-4abd-92f9-5ef772840443Post:c9d1ed67-3eeb-4b34-b2b9-4a192843f6be">Re: Poor Cate</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm making cupcakes *neener neeener neener!!*
    Posted by PaigeMcC[/QUOTE]

    I think someone should make a poor Mutley thread now.  You are taunting a pregnant lady with cupcakes.


    *POOOOR MUTLEY*  (Any takers?  Anyone?)
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