We believe in god..that should be sufficient, right? I was taught all my life that as long as you have faith you would be fine. We've both attended church before but we are not Sunday Church people.....However we want our ceremony in a church. All local churches thus far want like $2000 to perform/hold it OR shun me for not being a member. When did religion become so cult like? Why can't I just get married in a church without all this hassle?