I am currently confused about my "maid of honor". I have a 4 year old daughter, who will be almost 6 when we get married, that i want involved in my wedding as much as possible. She lives with me all the time except with her dad about 24 hours every other weekend. So, my FI is pretty much like her dad. We are having her completely involved in every aspect of the wedding. My sister is my MOH mstly because she is my only sister, I was her MOH and just feel like she should be mine. But, I will be having my daughter standing by me, holding my flowers during the vows and rings and pretty much doing all of the MOH duties. My sister is a little upset about it, but feel like my daughter should be involved as much as possible, mostly because she really wants to. Am I being ridiculous for letting my daughter do some of the MOH duties during the ceremony?