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FI's bachelor party

So, I just found out that FI's brother (Best Man) has invited two guys to FI's bachelor party who we were not planning to invite to the wedding.  (They were on our "wish" list but got cut.)Do we have to invite them now or do I chalk it up to "guys are dumb and they won't really care"?
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Re: FI's bachelor party

  • KariMichaelKariMichael member
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    edited December 2011
    FBIL did this to us too! and those guys went all the way to Vegas for the party... We added them on, but I don't think you have to. It was not you're or FI's error. If the guys ask about it, have FBIL address the issue, it was his mistake.
  • edited December 2011
    Oh man that is a tough one. I would probably send out an invitation to both of them but, I'm a pushover when it comes to our guest list just ask my mother! haha
  • leequadleequad member
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    edited December 2011
    I don't think you're obligated to invite them to the wedding. My FI had some extra guys at his bachelor party that will not be invited to the wedding.
  • edited December 2011
    Is the guest list out of the control? I was freaked out about ours the whole time and then it ended up that we came in about 20 people under the "max" I had set. What's two more? I say invite them.
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  • VAtoCOVAtoCO member
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    edited December 2011
    Yes, IMO, my guest list is out of control.  Especially on FI's side.  It would actually be 4 extra guests because both guys are married.  I know in the grand scheme of things, it probably isn't a big deal, it is just annoying.
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