my wedding will be at the beach about 2 hours away from where my fiance and i live. no one is local to that area, except my parents, who live about an hour from the beach. most of my fiance's family and our friends live about an hour away from us, but the majority of my family is from the other side of the country. since all of these people are driving or flying in for the wedding, should we still plan on having a shower, eventhough most of my family won't be able to attend? or should we just forget about it, because everyone is spending a lot of money to come to the beach and stay for our wedding? any thoughts on this situation? thanks.