Oh so some history! I asked my bridesmaid back in september of last year to be in my wedding. So she has had a whole year to get prepared for this wedding. Well as the planning had been under way she tells me she has so money to pay for anything (although she is really upset at the same time she isnt my maid of honor) She also told me 4 months ago that she was finally excited for my wedding...I said you havent been this whole time and she said no "its kind of been all about you' Are you KIDDING me! So she has had a year to save 200 dollars which is how much everything the dress and shoes will be etc. She paid but the whole time kicking and screaming! Now today we went to buy shoes and she tells us she cant come to the shower and is pissed the other girls arent letter he help as much with the planning! (although she has no money to fork out for it!) Then we went to lunch and after she previously told me she had the weddng days off she told me today that she has to work the day of the rehearsal and the day of the wedding!!! Are you kidding me! You have had a year to get these days off and you still havent and now you cant! This is ridiculous! (I said could you imagine if you were my maid of honor I wouldnt have any wedding festivities) Then she starts bad mouthing my maid of honor who I have known since I was born. Ok listen here lady I am not putting up with this! Sorry about the vent just really pissed! I dont know why it took a situation like this to see she was not a really good friend! This is only a taste of the crap she has put me threw! VENT OVER thanks ladies!