I cracked up at your last post on TN! If it's any consulation to you, I thought my wedding coordinator sucked, too, but as the wedding got closer, she did a 180. I tend to think that they are more concerned about the weddings they have in front of them, rather than the ones further out. I know it sucks to hear that, but that's just been my experience. I talked such trash about her early on and now I think she's great.