My mother has spent most of our planning time pretending she doesn't care what I choose. This has been fine, I know what I want. Today, I told her I plan to have my fiance and our dog walk me down the aisle. She absolutely FLIPPED. I really have my heart set on having him walk me to symbolize that we are going through this journey together. I don't like the whole idea of being "given away." We've been together for 6 years and have made it together. Mom said this is the one thing she won't compromise on and if she, my (absent) father, or my uncle (who I barely know) doesn't walk me down the aisle, she won't pay. Does anyone have a suggestion on how I can make her feel special and included without being given away?