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  • In Response to Re: AYG:
    In Response to Re: AYG : Here's the deal. you're still new. (GASP) and you made a complete ass out of yourself today. You're not going to get anyone to defend on you this conversation.  It's a losing battle. Sorry, thats' just the way the internets work. Get over it. Just promise if you GBCK you don't come back and pretend it never happened.
    Posted by Steph+J
    I'm not asking for a defense.  I've never claimed not to be new. It was a question.  Everyone is entitled to ask them.  No, I don't plan to GBCK.  

    Everyone was new at one point, and everyone has said/done things that were unpopular.  I love how people want to take something I said months ago and completely reword it though.  But that is how it goes around here.  If everyone left after they made a few mistakes, there wouldn't be many people left on here.
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  • peekaboo2011peekaboo2011 Washington, DC
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    Guys, I'm having a hard time discerning between my IRL self and my TK self.  Flaming Brandi automatically makes me think I'm being flamed.

    And I flame myself for being dumb and slightly paranoid that you all hate me.
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  • Brandi come on now.  Let sleeping shiiit lie.
    panther
  • No, I never had a Disney tea party and wouldn't. Until our niece is old enough - then I would participate in whatever she wanted to do.

    I wasn't even the one that started the calling of princesses in that thread. It didn't even last that long and we were quickly bored with it if I do recall correctly. People who didn't like it haven't stopped bringing it up though.
  • NebbNebb
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    In Response to Re: AYG:
    Guys, I'm having a hard time discerning between my IRL self and my TK self.  Flaming Brandi automatically makes me think I'm being flamed. And I flame myself for being dumb and slightly paranoid that you all hate me.
    Posted by peekaboo2011
    Ok, just go. Flaming yourself is the worst. Just go.
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  • Blueyed228Blueyed228
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    edited May 2012
    Ok, so I feel like I need to say something.

    I know noones intentions are bad and I appreciate all the thoughts.  I feel like its mostly my own fault because I have been really open with you guys about all this stuff.  Mostly because its nice to be able to talk about things since very few people IRL know whats going on.  However, the only time I was the one to bring things up was when I made a post saying I was pregnant, and then when I was talking about how excited I was for my first u/s (obviously not thinking anything would be wrong).  To keep the board from being a ton of baby talk, the other times I have talked about it was only when asked.  I honestly should have kept my mouth shut.

      I dont mind sharing, but honeslty I just dont want an onslaught of "Im sorry's" and people feeling sorry for me.  Even though people really are sorry and really do care.  I cant stand people feeling bad for me because im not dying, im not sick, i dont have cancer.  Things could be worse.  Its over, I have a D&C on Monday and after a few months of my uterus healing we will try again (maybe).

    Like I said, I put it out there, but Nebb and others are kind of right.  I have been so open about it, so if I didnt say anything, it was probably bad news.  If it was good news, you guys would have known right away because I would have been the typical AW that I am and made my own thread, lol.  So either way, thanks for the thoughts, but I really just dont want to talk about it.

    AYG.  Doing it wrong.



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  • SEWFSEWF
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    At my rehearsal dinner, I made it clear to people that if they clinked their glasses, nothing would happen except they would get a glare from me. I'm not going to kiss H for someone else's entertainment. I'm not there to be a show for you, and I will kiss my husband when I want to, and not because you clink your glass.

    It worked. No clinking, and I never felt any obligation. It was awesome!

    ETA: AND I'm way late. Just ignore me...
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  • In Response to Re: AYG:
    Brandi come on now.  Let sleeping shiiit lie.
    Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin

    This is what I don't understand. Truly.   I'm not the one who brought stuff up from months ago, and yet I'm not letting it lie. 


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  • peekaboo2011peekaboo2011 Washington, DC
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    In Response to Re: AYG:
    In Response to Re: AYG : Ok, just go. Flaming yourself is the worst. Just go.
    Posted by Nebb
    I did not know.  I've been on NEY for over a year, and we've done FFF like 3 times because inevitably it causes a GBCK and we're down to like 5 regs.
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  • In Response to Re: AYG:
    In Response to Re: AYG : I'm not asking for a defense.  I've never claimed not to be new. It was a question.  Everyone is entitled to ask them.  No, I don't plan to GBCK.   Everyone was new at one point, and everyone has said/done things that were unpopular.  I love how people want to take something I said months ago and completely reword it though.  But that is how it goes around here.  If everyone left after they made a few mistakes, there wouldn't be many people left on here.
    Posted by brandichamberlain
    oh honey. *head pat* You haven't seen anything.
  • In Response to Re: AYG:
    Guys, I'm having a hard time discerning between my IRL self and my TK self.  Flaming Brandi automatically makes me think I'm being flamed. And I flame myself for being dumb and slightly paranoid that you all hate me.
    Posted by peekaboo2011
    Whut?

    panther
  • Peek, I generally like you, no flaming yourself, it's dumb.

    You seem to be able to function on an internet forum without making a total dumbass out of yourself.  Brandi doesn't seem to have the same ability.  Therein lies the difference.
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  • In Response to Re: AYG:
    In Response to Re: AYG : I'm not asking for a defense.  I've never claimed not to be new. It was a question.  Everyone is entitled to ask them.  No, I don't plan to GBCK.   Everyone was new at one point, and everyone has said/done things that were unpopular.  I love how people want to take something I said months ago and completely reword it though.  But that is how it goes around here.  If everyone left after they made a few mistakes, there wouldn't be many people left on here.
    Posted by brandichamberlain
    So ummm, do you feel better now?   I mean how many times do you have to repeat it before it's truth in your mind? 
  • In Response to Re: AYG:
    Guys, I'm having a hard time discerning between my IRL self and my TK self.  Flaming Brandi automatically makes me think I'm being flamed. And I flame myself for being dumb and slightly paranoid that you all hate me.
    Posted by peekaboo2011
    Thats probably true.
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  • In Response to Re: AYG:
    In Response to Re: AYG : This is what I don't understand. Truly.   I'm not the one who brought stuff up from months ago, and yet I'm not letting it lie. 
    Posted by brandichamberlain
    let me regurgitate for you:

    In Response to Re: AYG : Here's the deal. you're still new. (GASP) and you made a complete ass out of yourself today. You're not going to get anyone to defend on you this conversation.  It's a losing battle. Sorry, thats' just the way the internets work. Get over it. Just promise if you GBCK you don't come back and pretend it never happened.
    Posted by Steph+J
  • In Response to Re: AYG:
    In Response to Re: AYG : So ummm, do you feel better now?   I mean how many times do you have to repeat it before it's truth in your mind? 
    Posted by Stackeye210

    What exactly am I repeating?
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  • peekaboo2011peekaboo2011 Washington, DC
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    AATB, my name IRL is Brandi.  Therefore, I'm confused pretty quickly when I'm functioning on low caffeine.
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    In Response to Re: AYG : truefacts.   Rach- I'm sorry. But we don't talk about Disney here on SB, so it was a novel conversation for me ;)
    Posted by Steph+J
    Not true. I love to talk about Disney. Just usually I do so with Mehg :)
  • Brandi, I'm the one who brought up the coffee thing. Everyone has the "thing" that other people remember them for. That's yours. You MIGHT eventually grow out of it, but it happens to all of us. People will give you shiiit about it for ages. Until you do something worse, at least. 

    So, would you like to do something worse or deal with the coffee situation?
  • In Response to Re: AYG:
    AATB, my name IRL is Brandi.  Therefore, I'm confused pretty quickly when I'm functioning on low caffeine.
    Posted by peekaboo2011

    Just don't drink too much caffeine.  Wouldn't want you to get addicted to that shiiit.
    panther
  • WAIT who knows Brandi IRL?  Because I thought it was peek until like 5 seconds ago
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  • Stackeye210Stackeye210
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    edited May 2012
    The same argument 83 different ways, waiting in the wings to jump on ANYONE who references something.  You don't make the rules here and you never will.  You will never understand the rules here because they're made in such a way that people like you will never get it and never fit in.  Because we're b*tches and that's how we play, you some of you make it too easy. 
  • whatever, ldy. I don't have a 'thing' people remember me for.

    Ohman. I kind of want to start a new thread- what's the one thing you'll always associate a poster with? that could get some drama going.
  • In Response to Re: AYG:
    Brandi, I'm the one who brought up the coffee thing. Everyone has the "thing" that other people remember them for. That's yours. You MIGHT eventually grow out of it, but it happens to all of us. People will give you shiiit about it for ages. Until you do something worse, at least.  So, would you like to do something worse or deal with the coffee situation?
    Posted by LDYGTR13

    This is all I was trying to say.  
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  • In Response to Re: AYG:
    WAIT who knows Brandi IRL?  Because I thought it was peek until like 5 seconds ago
    Posted by Smash Adams
    vegan/veggie something.
  • In Response to Re: AYG:
    WAIT who knows Brandi IRL?  Because I thought it was peek until like 5 seconds ago
    Posted by Smash Adams
    I think peek said her name IRL is brandi as well. So really, she was just being weird and flaming herself since clearly she has never heard of another person being named brandi in her life.
  • In Response to Re: AYG:
    In Response to Re: AYG : This is all I was trying to say.  
    Posted by brandichamberlain
    Yes - so don't get upset when people bring it up is what I was saying. 
  • marateamaratea
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    In Response to Re: AYG:
    whatever, ldy. I don't have a 'thing' people remember me for. Ohman. I kind of want to start a new thread- what's the one thing you'll always associate a poster with? that could get some drama going.
    Posted by Steph+J
    Yes! I think this could be awesome.
  • If you start that thread Steph I hope I get golden showers.

    I want to be associated with golden showers forever

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  • In Response to Re: AYG:
    In Response to Re: AYG : vegan/veggie something.
    Posted by Steph+J
    Ohhhhh

    Start the other thread!
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