we are just starting to get information from florists about flowers and centerpieces and tie it into our color scheme which is lilac white and silver. my mom spoke to a florist about these colors and they said since they do not go with the room at our venue (green carpet) we should not use them. they said we should use other colors. shouldnt they go along with the theme? am i wrong? my bridesmaids will be in lilac dresses with silver sashes. i wanted to have maybe lilac and white flowers with maybe silver candles or something on the table. please help