that sounds so weird, but I really need help. we're doing an episcopalian/lutheran/jewish ceremony to appease all the different religions in the family, and ourselves really since we like all the traditions. it's not as bad as it sounds, i'm a writer so i'm pretty much writing the whole ceremony from a hodgepodge of traditional services. but we still haven't found someone to officiate. some we checked out seemed open but after one said he had many couples "get married under a hookah" i gave up. has anyone used Bryon Mengle? I'm curious about him. After this the next step seems to be getting a friend ordained online, but for some reason i'm not totally on board with that yet. advice? recs? Thanks!!