I'm having a hard time figuring out what to do about bridesmaid. I have my 3 cousin picked out so far because we all decided long ago that we'd be in each others weddings. I am totally fine with that because we all get along and they will be around forever, we are like sisters! I have a few other close friends but my question is should I choose someone else who is close to me now and has a special place in my life at this point, or choose some ( like I chose family) who will be there in the long run. I talked to my one married cousin and she doesnt talk to one of her bridesmaids since after the wedding and my aunt said she hasn't seen her's since a few months after the wedding. what is appropriate.. long term people, or important people in your life at this moment? Thank you in advance