Hi Tiger, If you dont mind me asking how are you keeping your budget at $5,000? Did you find a venue yet? I'm only asking because I have a low budget with a lot of guests and any ideas people have I love to hear. My problem is all the venues alone are over my overall budget (which stinks) Mine is about $10,000 for the entire event soup to nuts with around 200 people if we can get the list down that far. We'd have it at a family members house but they all live in the city in Massachusetts so unless we wanted to have a reception in a garage or 10x10 front yard we're out of luck lol. Good luck on the DJ. We're not that far yet. That may be a wedding gift from a bunch of our family memebers (keeping our fingers crossed)