I'm moving less than a few weeks after my wedding from the US to Australia. I don't want a bunch of stuff that I can't take with me. But the cost of keeping some of the stuff I do want is going to throw me in the poor house. I can't ask for help from him because he is already saving up for the visa and plane tickets, and my family can't afford to help either...Should I have a Fed Ex box themed bridal shower or tell people not to worry about gifts and just wish for Ben franklin?