Last on I promise.I feel really guilty I didn't invite the person (cousin of FI that doesnt come to holidays and such) who invited me to her shower. I figured she is invited to the wedding but why make her feel obligated (preg and all) to come to the shower when we don't see her at all (once every 1 1/2 years maybe) shes a sweet girl, love chatting when we see each other but thats all. Her mother is invited but none of the other cousins on her side (brothers wives) are. I don't know I feel bad, am I just being stupid?