Our MOH and dude of honor don't live anywhere near us, and we don't have anyone else in our wp, so I more or less figured we wouldn't have a bachelorette party. Then a couple of friends said they wanted to plan a party for us, and asked us about either Dave & Buster's or a Korean spa. We voted for Dave & Buster's, primarily because we wanted something that the guys could go to. (It's not like there would be a separate bachelor party at our wedding.)Well, it appears they have now decided we should have BOTH--a mixed group at Dave & Buster's, and a female-only group at the spa. Having gone through my first wedding with only one party (and it was at work, and very low-key), I'm a bit overwhelmed!