I have a friend who I asked to be in my wedding last year and around April when it was time to order the BM's dresses she told me she could not afford to be in my wedding so I was okay with that. A little upset with her but understood her finacial situation. Then when my Bridal shower came around she was not able to make it because her husband scheduled their 5 year anniversay celebration that weekend. Okay I could understand taht as well for not making it. Well now my bachelorette party is next weekend and her name was on the invite as one of the hosts and my MOH said to her if you say yes you have committed to this and you don't have to do this well she said no it's fine. Well I get an email today and she tells me that she won't be able to make it to my bachelorette party!! WTF!! She has cancelled on me three times is how i see it! So here is my question Should i Uninvite her and her husband to my wedding? I am spending almost $350 a couple and I would rather have a couple that is actually our friend then someone who pretends to be! To top it off she said she doesnt have the money to go to my Bparty but would really like to buy a nice dress for my wedding. she is only concern with spending her money onherself!! She tells me all this by email! I am pissed now and I dont care to invite them, am i being to harsh?!?!TIA