Ok...I have a huge problem. My fiance and I were planning on going to Vegas and eloping. After many arguments with my mother, my older sister talked us into getting married in town, but she said she would talk to my mom about a small wedding...immediate family and grandparents only. My mom has finally come to terms with it. Now, my moms family is taking our decision personally. I really do not know what to do. We are private people and I do not like a lot of attention. So, I feel that having all of these other people there is going to make me feel uncomfortable. I do not feel that I should have to sacrifice feeling comfortable on our day. We are thinking about having someone tape the ceremony and showing it at, what we are calling, the "after party". This way , everyone gets to see the ceremony and we all get to celebrate together. This is still not making people happy. What would you do?