My daughter came home today in a panic. We have had an easy go of the RSVP thing, everyone has behaved, replied, and we only had to call 10 folks at the end. Til now....So here's the deal. My Heather started a new job in August, and it is really important to her. When it came time to invite, she included her boss, several co-workers and the HR person. The HR person was invited as "woman's name and guest" and she replied that she would be attending.So, today, she shows up at my daughter's door and says, "by the way, I'll know the people coming with us by the weekend, but it could be as many as 8", and then she leaves the doorway. I need a "speech" for her to give to this lady that nicely says...nope, only 2, no more.HELP!!!! Thanks