Ok, so last night Randall and I went to pick up vases for my little brother's wedding decor and he said..."We're really getting a good deal on these, especially since we can use them for tom's wedding and ours". That gave me the perfect opening to say what I wanted to say. I told him that I would like to not talk about plans for a wedding until it's official because I do not, in any way, want him to feel pressured to make things official. I said that yes, I would like to have a fall wedding...one day. Maybe not this year or next year, that I would wait until he proposed on HIS time. Then he got all quiet...and I asked him what was wrong. He said,"If I proposed on my time, it would've been the day after we met." (I'm such a lucky girl). He continued to say that if I didn't want to talk about it anymore that he understood and for me to just know that he loves me and wants to marry me as soon as he can afford to put a ring on my finger. So...I need to thank you girls for talking me into talking to him, because it turned out ALOT better than I would've thought. I think y'all were right in saying he may want to get the ring paid off beforehand because that makes since from what he said! But whatever it is, I'm just gonna relax and stop expecting or planning anything. Thanks girls!!!!