I'm a 2nd year masters student in Opera Performance, and FI is just starting his 1st year of PhD in Computer Science. Of course, we couldn't make things easy on ourselves and even be on the same coast, let alone at the same school. And neither of us is in school anywhere near where the wedding is taking place, so we're relying very heavily on our families to help us plan this thing! :-) We've been together for 5 years next week, engaged for a year next week, and we're getting married August 28, 2010. We wanted to wait until I'm done with school, and we also wanted to give ourselves LOTS of time to plan. I'm already struggling with the school vs. planning dilemma! Somehow it'll happen, right? :-)