My mom wants to invite all of her and my Dad's aunts and uncle's to the wedding. They are not paying for the food or the venue, both would go up in price if we were to add people. They are contributing for flowers, the photographer, and my dress. Does that give her the ability to add people? I told her that it is important to us to keep it small and that there are friends of ours that we are not inviting, but she just keeps saying that we will talk about it later... The worst part is that I don't even know many of the people she wants to invite.