Hi Ladies! I am sure this might have been discussed before, but I wanted to see how others handled this situation and I didn't notice any posts in passing? I have a friend I have known since 1st grade, we were good friends until I moved in 6th grade. We kept in touch over the years but very very sparingly and just started talking on a more regular basis about a year ago. I hadn't planned on her being in the wedding, but she is upset I haven't asked her and said its all shes wanted in the 20some years we have known each other. I feel like a total jerk so I am just wondering if any one else had that same thing similar happen and how it worked out? I had asked her to go dress shopping with me for my dress when I first told her I got engaged, but I just thought it would be fun. Now another Bridesmaid is telling me I shouldn't have invited her unless she was in the wedding! So I feel worse! I didn't know?! (She didn't end up coming). Anyway TIA