Ladies- You would think I would be overjoyed (I put the deposit down for our reception venue today)! But instead I'm stressed and freaked out! We have not reserved a ceremony site! We have not done this because we actually just became actual members of our parish. The woman told me that we have to be members for 3 months before fr. will even discuss marriage, that particular churches premarital classes we must complete etc., or even reserving a date. Im so nervous WHAT IF SOMEONE else reserves that date then WHAT WILL I DO!