So my FMIL has been really helpful with all the wedding planning and wanting to be real hands on with the wedding. I really appreciate all her help especially since I'm not very close with my own mom, it's really nice to have her with me for everything. But when my MOH and I talk about my bachelorette party my FMIL gets really upset that she's not invited? Now, am I being rude in some way? My girls and I are going downtown and club hopping for my party and I just don't feel like it's appropriate for my FMIL to be there. I feel like the party is for me and my girlfriends. But I feel guilty upsetting her when she's being so helpful. Any advice?