Hey All, I just had a question about co-ed bridal showers... has anyone had one? What are they like? I've never heard of one before, but two of my fiance's friends from highschool (both women who I've each met once) are being so sweet and offering to throw us one. They've asked me for a list of our friends to invite (again, so nice!). However, since the shower is being held in the groom's home town (2 and 1/2 hours away from where we live) I'm afraid there are few or our friends that would be able/willing to make that far of a drive, especially on a sunday afternoon. I guess my question is, do I give them a very very small list of people who have a greater chance of coming because they live closer (3-5 maybe)? Or do I give them the full list of mutual friends who are invited to our wedding (25+)? They said "the more, the merrier!" but I don't want them disappointed when most of our friends most likely won't be able to make it. On the other hand I do not want to appear ungrateful or unfriendly by giving them so few names. Is it even my place to worry about it? It's so amazing that they want to do this for us, I just don't know how to respond. Thanks for your help!