Before my fiance proposed my cousin had brought up being in the wedding if he ever proposed. I said yes. Then when he did propose I was stuck. My cousin and I talk sometimes, but every time we talk she puts me down...saying that I am too controlling for my fiance and that he deserves better. She says she's joking, but it bothers me and I've told her that. I invited her down a few weeks ago (she lives an hour away) to hang out with my friends. She did...stayed an hour and left. Later she told me that she hated my friends and that couldn't get along with them. She has also complained about the price of everything. I don't want her to be a bridesmaid, but don't know how to tell her. I talked to my parents about it and they told me to tell her honestly. Is there a way to do this or should I keep her in the wedding??Thanks so much!!!