My Mom is contributing some $ to the wedding. My fiance and I are paying for everything else. Well, we started working on preliminary guest list just to get an idea of how many people we might have. My Mom wants to invite old friends she hasn't seen in years, co-workers, etc. First off we don't want a huge guest list nor do I think it's a time to reconnect with people she hasn't seen in years. She says she will cover their portion of food, but it isn't jsut that. We would have to order extra tables, linens, chairs, centerpieces, alcohol, etc. Am I being unreasonable? Anyone else deal with this?